There are questions and there are answers but at times there are questions which really have no answers. You can go round and round and round and you still come up with naught.
It's just a random thought so please don't go into a tizzy thinking I have some unanswered question in life. But I'm just thinking or rather writing aloud as to why certain questions get you no answers, mainly in the way people react and behave.
You meet someone and he/she seem really nice. All is well and hunky dory and suddenly you see a side which leaves you totally stumped. You're left wondering what you missed the whole time you thought you knew him/her. It seems so alien and no matter how much you dissect your knowledge of that particular person you generally never figure it out.
I've seen it with friends, friends of friends. I've spent countless hours questioning or listening to someone question this strange phenomenon. And after all the bheja fry you eventually end up saying to yourself......this question has no answer.
It's just a random thought so please don't go into a tizzy thinking I have some unanswered question in life. But I'm just thinking or rather writing aloud as to why certain questions get you no answers, mainly in the way people react and behave.
You meet someone and he/she seem really nice. All is well and hunky dory and suddenly you see a side which leaves you totally stumped. You're left wondering what you missed the whole time you thought you knew him/her. It seems so alien and no matter how much you dissect your knowledge of that particular person you generally never figure it out.
I've seen it with friends, friends of friends. I've spent countless hours questioning or listening to someone question this strange phenomenon. And after all the bheja fry you eventually end up saying to yourself......this question has no answer.
I guess life gives it back to you when you least expect it..so expect the unexpected :)
ReplyDeleteNice blog Surubhi
Rahul
Yups...happens a lot of times. And seriously this phenomenon has no answer.
ReplyDelete@Rahul : oh yes am always ready for the unexpected.....in fact that's the only thing i expect :) Thanks so much Rahul :)
ReplyDelete@reddevil : I think I've even given up questioning now :)
At times even people don't know themselves entirely, there are things, revelations, that make them discover that aspect of their ownself, so how can v be sure of a person...that is why i tend to let my sub conscious do the thinking when it comes to people..if my brain says nt the right person, i take it.
ReplyDelete@Meeta : Hard to believe people not knowing themselves....i think it's hidden in the depth and often comes out no matter how hard they try to hide it.
ReplyDeleteTo the first part of your post:
ReplyDeleteJust because you don't see the answer doesn't mean the answer dose not exist. There is always an answer, we are just not sure of it, or we don't know how to answer it. But just as well there is an answer.
To the second part of your post:
People are always acting. When a person is talking to you, they are acting in a way, they think, that you will like. As soon as they no longer see you as an investment in their lives, they cease acting and become their true selves.
@Piotr : I don't know about an answer being there coz frankly I'v never found it. And I totally agree with you....people are stop being nice the minute they don't have any further use of you and that is a really sad fact of life.
ReplyDelete@piotr sooooo true!!!!!
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